It's also the time where we get around people we may not see throughout the year. That's where the trouble comes. Especially if the last time we saw somebody there was any kind of friction. (Been there? Done that?)
I'd expect there are many just dreading the holiday get together. (Is it you?) We can do a lot to help ourselves (short of not showing up) to handle the pressure and dispel the tension that can accompany any gathering.
The main thing is to prepare ahead of time. Know the relational mistakes and avoid them...
10 Boo Boos People Make at Holiday Get Togethers (plus 1 bonus):
1. Show up late
2. Worry about what others think
3. Talk too much
4. Talk about themselves
5. Try to change people
6. Are too honest
7. Show off (brag)
8. Drink too much
9. Judge
10. Stick their foot in their mouth (say something they shouldn't say)
BONUS: Forget to say, "Thank you" (and send a "Thank you" card afterwards)
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