Controlling People

Manipulation. Raising one's voice. Anger. Threats. Arm-twisting. Pouting. Flattery. There are a myriad of approaches that people use (in business, in life) to move, motivate (control?) people. Which "approach" do you respond to most? Do you tend to allow others to "control" you? (Be honest.) On the other hand, which "approach" do you use most to get others to respond? Are you a "controller" yourself? (Be honest again.) The only legitimate approach to move, motivate people is one that allows them (us) the freedom to choose of their (our) own accord (without coercion). What step can you take right now to stop controlling or being controlled? (Yes, I was trying to move, motivate you, but in a nice, "uncontrolling" way.)